User:	sextips (posted by odetta_to_detta)
	Date:	2010-01-02 07:58
	Subject:	Cock ring recommendations
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Hi there! I was just wondering of someone could recommend a vibrating cock ring. I looked through the memories but what I could find was really just people asking what one was.

I guess the only thing I should mention that may make a difference is that my BF is a bit smaller than average I think (I haven't actually measured it, but I think it is). He MIGHT be right on average as far as length but as far as girth I'd guess it's about a 1 inch diameter (disclaimer: I am bad at guesstimating measurements. But it's about the diameter, though slightly smaller, of two of my fingers and when I measure that they're an inch), so I worry about buying something that will be too big and will make him feel bad.

Also, as I've seen they can be worn either way, something that doesn't have to go around the testicles may be best, as BF is already a bit skeptical about one around his penis and may not be comfortable with something that goes around the whole system. He's willing to try but wants something that can be worn either way, just in case. He also is not keen on anal stimulation (neither am I), though perineum stimulation is fine (though not necessary).

A quieter one would be best as well, as we live with housemates and our walls are really thin, and replaceable batteries would be ideal.

What I'm looking at right now are these:

Ring one

Ring two

Ring three

Ring four The glowing aspect of this one is a little weird, but eh. May make it more fun :P

Ring five

Does anyone have any experience with these? Or have any other cock rings that they would recommend?

Thank you very much for your help!

	User:	sextips (posted by caricaneba15)
	Date:	2009-12-31 14:03
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So I've been reading this community for the past couple of days, and I think you guys might be able to give me some insight for my problem..I think that I have a problem of settling down. I really want to be in a committed relationship because I love being intimate and I just need that emotional connection, but every time I end up having sex with a person- I no longer see that person as very desirable. I feel like I've been leading on many guys, and I end up hurting them because of this issue. I can't just tell them "Hey I know we have had an amazing time for the past 4-5 months, But as soon as we have sex, I'll have to drop you." I feel like they have all been great guys, and the sex was amazing, but I am just no longer interested in them after I have sex with them. I tell myself, that it was lust to begin with, and I just need to find the right guy that I will be able to fall in love with! Sorry if this is a stupid question, but does anyone have any insight?

	User:	sextips (posted by 77kids4life)
	Date:	2009-12-28 14:42
	Subject:	a question for mostly men
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in all serious guys, what is your opinion:

is it an emotional action to cum inside a woman with no protection? can you do it without feeling anything for a woman?

also: eating out, what makes you put in the effort of eating a woman out?

	User:	sextips (posted by oh_neverland)
	Date:	2009-12-21 23:16
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I was just wondering, if a woman goes from having sex with a guy who had an 8-inch penis for a few months, to, a month later, another guy who has a, for example, 4, 5 or 6-inch penis, would she be less sensitive to the newer experience, due to the older one that stretched the vagina's muscles more?

	User:	sextips (posted by fullof_secrets)
	Date:	2009-12-25 17:48
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I've once read about a hormone of sorts that makes women more prone to become attatched to her partner after sex, for biological survival reasons. I can't seem to find the literature. What is the hormone?

	User:	sextips (posted by blackbeauty123)
	Date:	2009-12-25 17:12
	Subject:	Advice anyone??
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ok you guys I have huge dilemma in my book.

My and boyfriend who is 27 and I am 21 has been together for 2yrs and I adore him. He gives me the world and the only things he wants in return is my love & loyalty which I am happy to give.

This where the brakes are beginning to pump Ive been with him for 2yrs and I have been sexually suppressing myself the whole time. When we have sex I do it his way I match his style to a tee and give him what he desires even if I dont feel like it all the while Im completely ignoring and shutting out my own sexual style. So now Im tired of suppressing my desires.

The only thing I truly need when It comes to sex is excitement, a thrill of some sort. Whether that be teasing me til I can no longer manage or playing some sort of game with me as foreplay. Sex to me is fun why not play? I also I LOVE PDA not only do I love but I need it, im a bit of a voyeur & exhibitionist. Kissing in public excites me, its passionate, it loving & its beautiful, who cares who is watching...its love its natural not something to hide.

Needless to say my boyfriend is not into PDA he would rather wait to passionately kiss me in the privacy of our home & to me thats so boring!!! I hate fucking and kissing in the same place...shit lets be adventurous, lets explore, lets feel the wind against our bodies as we kiss outside. He feels Im taking a petty matter and blowing it out of proportion. He feels we are both grown and should act it & come to a comprise. The comprise on his terms is he'll will give me pecks and hugs in public but nothing passionate until we are in the privacy of home. On my terms fuck a comprise...I need this. This is how I express myself sexually, he would hate if he couldnt fuck me his way, when Im not able to let loose like I would like I feel stifled and I feel like im loosing a piece of myself.

• So anybody got any advice how I can make private person interested in pda?? Am I taking this out off proportion??
• Should I drop the matter and continue on how our relationship has been or should I drop him altogether?
• I dont want 2 cheat but damn....Im sitting here wondering can 2 ppl with 2 completely sexual appeties and desires really make it together? Everything is else is almost perfect just the sex...HELP ME PPL!!!

	User:	sextips (posted by nycnightsalways)
	Date:	2009-12-20 16:44
	Subject:	Poll: When Male Partner Cums A Lot During Head
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When your male partner produces a HUGE load during head, what is your preference? Why?

- Swallow
- Chest
- Stomach
- Face
- Other

	User:	sextips (posted by dupermonster)
	Date:	2009-12-20 00:39
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Hi again everyone,

I'm trying to find a reputable website that sells women's corsets/bustiers with garter belts... something dominatrix-y. Not teddies but corsets, something waist-length with garter straps... Anyway, Amazon sells mostly pleather and polyester and I was hoping to find something of better quality that's not too hard on the wallet. Macy's doesn't have that much to choose from, neither does Victoria's Secret. Any suggestions?

	User:	sextips (posted by gurleygurlpie)
	Date:	2009-12-16 22:29
	Subject:	boyfriend is disinterested in sex
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My boyfriend of over one year is disinterested in sex. Originally, the disinterest was caused by inexperience and performance anxiety. However, after many, many attempts to successfully have sexual intercourse and discussions about his fears/worries, we were finally able to have good sex. This was in the spring. His higher libido only lasted a few months though (late March to July). By August he was already disinterested in sex (not just piv, but ALL forms of sex) again. He constantly tells me how much he loves me, but it makes me think that he is only emotionally interested in me. I am the type of person who values a healthy sex life in a relationship and his lack of interest in sex is causing me to question if he is boyfriend material for me. We have talked about this issue on several occasions, but nothing seems to change. He blames in on his 'low libido' and 'not understanding his own body'. I have encouraged him to practice masturbating as a way for him to become more knowledgeable about his body (since he only masturbated in his junior year of high school/when he was sixteen years old) and/or to seek professional guidance. He seems to listen to my suggestions, but does not act upon them. I am beginning to question his sexuality/maturity since he expresses no interest in having any type of sex. Any advice on what to do about this situation? I am about to throw in the towel out of frustration and rejection.